I went to a lecture last week on what Muslims think of evolution and the lecturer, a Muslim well versed on the subject, went on to say that what Muslims believe on that topic is dependent on the country and culture in which they grew up in. I thought it was a total cop-out. Aren’t there some aspects of evolution all Muslims agree on? Our culture can’t dictate everything about religion, y’know?

But sometimes all we do see is culture, masquerading as religion. That’s the stuff that trips us up now and then and that’s what we see in the book American Dervish, written by Ayad Akhtar.

Book Cover

The book is about Hayat, the son of Pakistani-American immigrants who was raised in Milwaukee. Hayat is narrating the story as an adult to a classmate about the time when he was 11 years old and his mother’s best friend from Pakistan, Mina, comes to live with them. Soon, Mina is courted by Hayat’s father’s friend, who happens to be Jewish. I don’t want to give away too much more but the reader knows that something terrible is going to happen since Hayat hinted as much before he tells the story in the first place.

The book is good but some of the characters the author creates who are practicing Muslims (or depicting themselves as practicing) are all mostly hypocrites and also called out as sheep who can’t think for themselves. I almost wanted to take offense to this and say that the author shouldn’t make Muslims look that bad but I realized that Ayad Akhtar didn’t set out to tell a PC story about Islam and Muslims. This isn’t about how all Muslims are bad though and so we shouldn’t take it as such.

So instead of being offended I’ll instead take the above, and other parts of the book, as a lesson about how we shouldn’t be ignorant about religion.

Islam is meant to be a very open, non-judge-y religion and yet we all sometimes act like everything is black and white with no room for interpretation. The problem is that a lot of us, and I include myself in this, just aren’t educated enough to know what’s what.* I used to think things were either right or wrong growing up. You were supposed to do this, you aren’t supposed to do that. Done and done. But things are never that simple.

A lot of the male Muslim characters in American Dervish are hardly role models but there is one person in the book that tries to embody Islam in her own way, Mina. She’s the one that first got Hayat interested in Islam and her telling Hayat that a lot of it is about intention is an idea that many of us should be able to grasp since that is what many of us were taught.

None of us are perfect. However, we can take a lesson from Mina and think about our intentions with our actions. Let’s not use religion as a way to make ourselves feel superior over others and understand that culture is all well and good, but try not to have it mess with faith.

So those are my thoughts on American Dervish. Not quite a review but more a reflection. If you’re upset that Akhtar didn’t tell your story as an American-Muslim-Pakistani, well then, write your own! We need more of these types of stories out there anyways :)

Take care folks!

*Huge sidenote:

I recently read the book I Speak for Myself: American Women on Being Muslim, a collection of essays written by American Muslim women. There was one essay that really resonated with me because it dealt with the importance of educating oneself on religion. In one part of the essay, the writer was concerned a friend who had studied Islam abroad would judge her, much as the writer had previously judged her own husband and his religiousness. That worry turned out to be unnecessary. Here’s an excerpt:

Much to my surprise, she did not judge me at all. I worried my boisterous personality would offend her or my clothes would be too form-fitting for her sensibilities- or that she would interpret the speed of my prayers as insincerity in my devotion. When I later confessed these concerns to her, she smiled and said, “My teacher taught me that knowledge is mercy. The more you know, the less you will judge others.” I can think of no better representation of the spirit of truth and of Islam with that statement. The more we study and learn about Islam, the more we will realize how little we know about the truth – and the less we will insist on imposing rigid delineations of Islam on others and ourselves.

-From the essay Truth Is Not Always Self-Evident by Rabea Chaudhry from the book I Speak for Myself. Check out the book if you can. All the essays are worth reading.

Disclaimer: I actually know Rabea but that’s not why I happened to write about this essay – it happened to fit in with what I was talking about :)

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A Look Back on 2011 – Hajj Times

by Bushra on January 2, 2012

I realize today is the 2nd day of 2012 and that maybe I missed the window of time when one is allowed to reflect on 2011 but I’ll just ask for forgiveness and move on…

Looking back on the year in which I turned 30, hands down the greatest, most awesomest thing that happened was that I got to go for Hajj. For a Muslim who is financially and physically able, going for the Hajj is a requirement and must be completed at least once in one’s life. It was truly a blessing that I got to go on the pilgrimage at this age.

After I got back, someone asked me if I was going to write about my experiences. At first, I wanted to but realized I wrote all that I needed to say in my Facebook update on my way back from Saudi Arabia:

“Hajj went well, Alhamdulilah. Hoping to now institute some change in my life for the better, InshAllah. “

I know, I know, not exactly the most insightful statement but I felt like that was all I had to say in written form.

However, when anyone asked me in person how my trip was, I would tell them about it. I talked about the mosque in Medina and how I couldn’t get over how beautiful it was, about saying my prayers in front of the Kaaba, staying in tents in Mina, and how really cool a lot of the people I met turned out to be.

Funny enough though, I do feel the need to write about one aspect right now…

Like I said above, I came back with the sense of wanting to change. Because, I have to be honest with y’all, I felt like my flaws were exposed during the trip. There were a few times where I took a step back from the situation and couldn’t believe myself. I wanted to be as perfect as possible but who knows how many mistakes I made and how many defects in my own self manifested. At some point though, I realized that I was just going to have to try to do my best and quit worrying. Beyond that, I could pray that my pilgrimage was accepted and start incorporating changes in my life – I want to be a better person, be more charitable, be more spiritual and religious, more patient, more everything. Essentially, I wanted to improve myself.

Having said all of the above, more than 6 weeks have passed and I feel like I haven’t gotten on any of the things I set for myself. I keep on thinking about all that I want to do but never actually do them (Hey, I guess that’s another one of my flaws!).

So with the new year, I want to take the opportunity to start fresh. Just because I haven’t done something yet doesn’t mean I can never do it. I still have a lot to reflect on from my pilgrimage and I don’t want to lose the momentum that came from it. Therefore I will:

- Start all the things I said to myself I would do when I got back Hajj
and
- Quit procrastinating on a few other things that I’ve wanted to start/continue for a while now (Man, remember when I was learning Arabic? Exactly!)

Here’s hoping for a successful 2012 for all of us, InshAllah.

Thanks for reading and Happy New Year!

Lady in front of me praying in Medina

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Faith Versus Foolishness

December 25, 2011

So in my last post I posed a really off the wall question: “To take one’s life is completely against Islam but what if it has to happen to prevent something horrible from occurring to others?”* Funny enough, I sort of got a response to my question. Well, as close as I could get anyways. [...]

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The Zombie Question: To Be Bitten vs Being Torn Apart

December 4, 2011

The show The Walking Dead had its midseason finale last week. The premise is simple: people somehow turned into zombies and are roaming the earth while groups of humans here and there do their best to survive. The DVR had recorded* all the new episodes but I only recently caught up with all of them, [...]

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Kinda, Sorta Doing the Thanksgiving Thing

November 24, 2011

In elementary school around Thanksgiving time, we would dress up as Pilgrims and Native Americans and sit down and have a meal. Because that’s what Thanksgiving was about right- that time when the Pilgrims invited the Native Americans to eat with them!* This was all kind of weird to me, especially since it culminated with [...]

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A Sort of Review of All-American Muslim

November 14, 2011

I caught the first episode of the new reality series All-American Muslim on TLC last night. Announced several months ago, the series follows around a few Muslim families in the city of Dearborn, Michigan, which is home to the highest concentration of Arabs in the U.S. I voiced my hesitation for this series when it [...]

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Hajj Bound, InshAllah

October 23, 2011

For those of you that don’t know, the Hajj is a pilgrimage in and around Mecca, Saudi Arabia and is a requirement for Muslims if one is financially and physically able to make the pilgrimage. The actual rituals of Hajj span a period of about 5 days that come around once a year in the [...]

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Tales from a Fake Hip Hop Fan

October 12, 2011

Back in 2007, I did my sister a favor and went with her to the Lupe Fiasco concert in San Francisco at the Fillmore. She was a fan while I knew close to nothing about him. All I knew about the guy was that he had a couple of albums out, he’s a skater, and [...]

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Interview: Dr. Naif Al-Mutawa, Creator of the Comic Book The 99

October 9, 2011

Dr. Naif Al-Mutawa, creator of the comic book series The 99, which is also currently being produced as an animated series, is the subject of the upcoming documentary Wham! Bam! Islam!, to air on PBS on October 13th. From the website: Al-Mutawa came up with the concept of The 99: a team of superheroes, each [...]

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Movie Review – Fordson: Faith, Fasting, Football

September 12, 2011

Playing in select AMC theaters for a limited period of time, the documentary Fordson: Faith, Fasting, Football follows the football team of Fordson High School in Dearborn, Michigan in the days leading up to their big game against their rivals from Dearborn High in September of 2009. In a city with many Muslims and Arabs, [...]

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